其中包括我主动并努力参加演讲比赛,而非我喜欢演讲Amongthem,Itaketheinitiativeandtrymybesttoparticipateinthespeechcontest,ratherthanIlikespeech
即使不参加考卷,也只是在说别人嘴里说我是个外向的人。Evenifyoudon'ttaketheexam,you'rejustsayingthat"Taotaoisanextrovert".我变得越来越不像我了,在刻意地做这些事时,我一点都不舒服,不开心Ibecomemoreandmoreunlikeme.WhenIdeliberatelydothesethings,Iamnotcomfortableandunhappyatall
但最近,我才真正明白了,内向和外向本是并立的两个单词,都是中性的,没有谁好谁坏的。Butrecently,Ireallyunderstandthatintroversionandextroversionaretwowordsthatstandsidebyside.Theyareneutral.Nooneisgoodandnooneisbad.百科中对内向的解释是:安静、内省、脱离群居、喜欢独处、保持距离(除非你亲朋好友)TheexplanationofintroversioninEncyclopediais:quiet,introspective,outofgroup,liketobealoneandkeepadistance(unlessyouarefriendsandrelatives)我会很乐意在上面加一个字:慢热Iwouldbehappytoaddawordonit:slowheat
注重边界感,刚开始接触内向人冷淡,也许可以理解为局促、距离感、不安。Payingattentiontothesenseofboundaryandbeingindifferenttointrovertsatthebeginningmaybeunderstoodascramped,distanceanduneasiness.但只要熟悉起来你就会发现ta很热情很热情,话很多就会整天哈哈哈,相处很融洽。Butaslongasyougetfamiliarwithit,youwillfindthatTAisveryenthusiasticandenthusiastic.Hewilltalkalotandgetalongwellallday.、
两个人越来越亲密了,你们的感情也在慢慢加深Thetwoaregettingcloserandcloser,andyourfeelingsaregraduallydeepening就像藤蔓一样会生长蔓延,像舒适,温热的水Itwillgrowandspreadlikeavine,likecomfortable,warmwater
不要像那些急躁的激情,像一盆烫水,冷的很快就难以保持。Don'tbelikethoseimpatientpassions,likeabasinofhotwater.It'shardtokeepitcoldsoon.